The rule of three is an interior design technique that uses groupings of three items to create a focal point while balancing a space or a feature in the room. This includes the furniture in seating areas, decor items on a shelf or table, and even the colors in the space by applying the 60, 30, 10 rule.
The rule works by following symmetry and asymmetry. If you want something to feel balanced, you make it symmetrical so it feels complete and you take everything in as a whole, this normally means even numbers. If you want to have movement and bring eyes in, you use an odd number or take something off balance. It could be as simple as having two similar items at equal lengths on a coffee table, or one dominant object on one side and nothing at the other.
Asymmetry brings your eyes in because everything is off balance, and that is where the rule of three comes in. Three similar items, whether they’re the same or not, can balance the decor. This uses the Gestalt Principles of Interior Design. And by moving it so the tray aligns with the center of the coffee table, everything becomes balanced.

There are a few ways to use the rule of three including:
- Items grouped in threes
- 3 sets of items
- 3 colors in a space
- 3 evenly spaced items
This is different from the rule of thirds in photography and art as the rule of thirds is about composition where you line up the focal points on a grid, one of three vertical or horizontal lines, or one of four intersecting points. The rule of threes in interior design is similar because it can be used to create a focal point or balanced feel, but it is about grouping three objects or colors into the same space vs. composing art.
If you only had one item like a candle, the space would feel empty, two evenly spaced it feels balanced and everything blends in, but three items creates a nice focal point that brings attention to the space and makes it feel comfortable. The only constraint is to make sure the three items grouped together are not too bulky or identical in size, texture, colors, or shape as this makes the space feel too crowded. Something needs to build contrast for it to balance out.

It can be applied to most of the spaces in your home including decor items, lighting, and the layout of the room. Here’s an example of how two symmetric pendant lights look great above a kitchen island and balance it out so the scene blends together using symmetry.
Below you’ll see where a third light and a closer grouping uses the rule of threes to create a slight asymmetry and make the counter a focal point while the room still feels comfortable and balanced.

Here’s a few ways to use this concept in your home, office, or space to help create the effect you’re going for.
Furniture
There are a few ways to apply the rule of thirds to furniture including the furniture in the room, the decor items on the furniture, and to anchor a room. The first is to have three complementary pieces so they balance each other out.
You could have a sofa with a matching love seat and a chair, or you could try a couch with two matching accent chairs. A couch on its own in a room becomes a focal point where people know where to sit. When you pair a couch with a love seat or accent chair next to it at an angle, you keep the focal point and draw attention to the coffee table and space directly in front, but it isn’t as conversational.Decor on Shelves
The first way to use the rule of threes on a shelf is to pick a shelf you want to bring attention too. On the other shelves you can create a balanced and symmetrical look with photos in matching frames facing each other, and a third similar photo frame in the middle. Another option is to use rows of books across the shelves so they balance the other shelves out. On the focal point shelf, group the element you want to stand out in a group of three and center it.
The shelves with equally spaced and balanced decor items will all balance each other out, and the shelf with the grouping of three items will stand out because it is different. It will remain balanced because the odd number will bring eyes in and balance it as long as the pieces match in theme, color, or texture.
Colors, Textures, and Materials in the Room
The last way to use the rule of threes is to use the 60, 30, 10 or 70, 20, 10 rule of interior design. 60 or 70 percent of the main items should be one color or texture, 30 or 20 percent the next, and 10 percent for the last. We’ll go with 60, 30, 10 for this example and three core colors.
The walls and the area rug or carpet can be one color, the couch, chairs, and even vases or lamps, and frames for artwork on the walls can be the next. The coffee table and accent tables can be the 10 percent while a tray on the coffee table can be part of the 30.
The rule of threes is your best friend when you want a space that feels comfortable, but has energy and balance. You can apply it to decor items, furniture, and the color palette. Once you start thinking in the number three, designing your dream space becomes easy as 1, 2, 3.